WINE  &  DIVINE – (Part I )
- This article is dedicated to the people who are in search of  Happiness loosing Health : body-buddy-bread. 

( A Happy Dog Force to Smile FREAKY)

It is absolutely true today the life around is very freaky or force to do so, as very unusual and unexpected thing happening. Things include animal, person, place or any event natural or man made, comport differently. We are so much concern with the happenings and peace, which includes major participation of man but he himself  dismantle the intrinsic form to deform, leads to the situation, seems to be seeped from his hand.

A very hectic and competitive days are pushing a man to very painful friction.This puts man into unsecured situation of  and compel him to take part in fatal race. Unfortunately it includes both men and woman.Woman are so extra burdened.

In this very unpredictable and tagged scenario in every walks of life - home,office,society,school including religious places,where we intend to find a solution, that a man can get little space to forget his worries, tension, turmoil.As these pressure both woman and men they are now in search of relaxation. This search some times taking them diverted or to the either side of the bank. Important is most essential pillars of society are in unstable situation, so to stabilize they adopt the easy solutions to breath.  

Then for little sigh there is so the easy available options  one is socially approved other one is disapproved,though the parameters of society are also changed dramatically but it is only question remain with one is opened and other one is in protected space. This is a trendy path of  BRANDY

Where as - the other is        traditional path of   DEVOTEE --  to calm down.
It is also true that who will go to which path is decided by many factors,but both the places are  now trending fast.
 Adopting either any one or both options depends upon their mind set up,financial permit and social background.And you may find lot of rush there at both the places, even at certain places people are in ques. Sometimes they are in such a need where they even cant wait and pay extra charges to solemn themselves some are quietly and sometimes very hastily. Surprising thing is both are not certain for their result.The ultimate result is again fear and insecurity.

So intend may be justifiable but practical experience is both ways are not much hospitable.Now a days both ways are become so commercial that people who go for this, instead of getting out of their problems they are day by day put themselves into mire. They come to know latter when nothing has left with them, it happens in both places-Religion and Restaurants(Bar).
Why it is so then lot of people are running for, despite of criticizing it ? Both you will see unhappy with elongated faces !!!  

In fact all have almost missing the fact. All are talking about the globalization, social justice and freedom, but who will take care of individual whose mind software either have become default or corrupt.  Due to acceptance of faulty life style and extrovert mind set.  And most dangerous thing is, absolutely they are unaware. At one hand they feel themselves level-headed or sound thinkers but on other hand what the options most of them are adopting to be pleasant is: Wine!

On other hand, those who are self declare spiritual agitators around, are adopting the same misunderstood, peripheral or peddling religious dogma. On the top of that, they do say we are the only authority  and spreading such a techniques, they insist to follow which are not only easy to practice for the fellowmen today nor it has been fully experienced by themselves. Like wise many outdated, blunt and very difficult procedures for the common man today; saying this is the true path followed by many, to be pleasant is: Divine !

Both groups are in search of peace and to calm down there mind after the days long work and efforts, the better and easier way to exercise  either divine or wine option to dull their mind and body.

If you see, the result - it is o.k. but same for both wine  and divine is  just temporary. It is  to soothe, yes or no ? But See; observe both parties are doing this for the same result finding no such permanent  relief . If you want, then, ask them, there will be endless confrontation on the option they have exercised or following. You will find no concrete and acceptable answer. Even their justification will take the great Utopian shape and will justify the social and economical need. You will find both side have same number of votes. In particular, discussion, whosoever may win, both party always remains in dilemma. Wine party or Divine party both will be little doubtful with their justification, because their main issue is relief ,which they are deprived off. It is the mere ibnorence, both are responsible to turn blind eye to so called LIFE STYLE and  so called SPIRITUALITY as well.   

While reading this blog you too, may fold your cuffs for one more war, but let me clarify that we are here seeking solution with respect to both of the philosophies. Here we will not conclude with the denial of either parties rather we may give them better understanding towards the same result for what they are looking for.

Let us discuss the latter first- Spirituality: It is very vast subject and need deep understanding is required to cope with the justification of spirituality that dulling your mind may long term give better result. But it is not the place here where my separate blog is dedicated for this subject.

So my major emphasis is on the connivance towards adopting just inexperienced techniques and neglecting the so profound and valuable assets of thousands of years of perseverance of those ancient seekers is taken so lightly and many have made their livelihood the business out of it. 

There are very few religious gurus and organisations are easily available today to help you for yourself; they are just like the religious agents helping on taxing toll. If you are getting some relief or outcome then it is absolutely the fruit of  your innocent belief and trust towards that almighty God. But for this you need not to hold anybodies flag on your shoulder and to take extra efforts to visit them day to day or weekly congregation.

On other hand we are exercising easier and stylish option to dull their mind is ALCOHOL- in different flavor, test, colour, quality and local or imported as well depends upon the passion and pocket. Now within one hundred years alcohol consumption has become one important part of the ritual of many festivals and ceremonies birthday to funeral. Few years before just probably 1% in villages were drunken people but today even youngsters, boys and girls too, are in the stupor, kick !

Initially only landlords or the rich people were going for this indulgence but now it has become fashion, trend in all ages,every poor and cultured families including young generation and becoming addict at very early age. It is becoming now the status symbol  

In fact all want to pamper themselves to get rid of the stress of the today’s cut throat race and also to protect the so called self declared identity. But in this process we forget how our health is affecting. It is affecting yourself Physically, Economically very badly. In addition, Psychological effect is so horrendous that many people cannot come out of their situation throughout their life. It becomes lifetime curse on their shoulder under which they slowly become part of the top soil-dead. Global status report on alcohol and health published by WHO that there are millions people die due to alcohol consumption addition to wreck the family totally.

At least WHO has not yet published any fatal and cognizable survey report those who are affected by religious gurus or preachers so at least it is better option but do it knowingly don’t drag your family if they are not willing. But it is true as, alcohol addict there are  religious addict as you know these people also become danger elements for peaceful society.

I personally neither supporting nor I oppose both the parties those who want to go for the alternatives; rather I am here to suggest you, the better option which you may try yourself as your intent towards doing this is mainly to calm down yourself. So let us find some of the easy alternatives-

1)Spare your free time absolutely with your family- wife, mother, father and children
2) If you want to drink then don’t go out just sit in your bed room and enjoy for a while. This habit controls and avoids addiction.

3)Instead of wasting so much amount for both to religious gurus or for wine ,purchase some good books whichever you like and spend your time to read good stuffs of your mind and intellect.

4)Keep all your religious teachings at personal level don’t try to impose either on your family members or society.

5)Don’t become addict of anything, just keep in mind.

( We shall meet in second part where we discuss odd and even effects of both dulling options-Wine and Divine with scientific analysis.)

Thank you.

-Leo SRS